$16.99
For curiosity, closeness & everything between
A more comfortable way to explore together.
Thoughtfully selected products and honest guidance for couples who want less awkwardness and more connection.
Discreet by designPrivate packaging, always
Chosen with careNo overwhelm. Just good options.
Real human guidanceWarm answers, zero judgment
Start with the feeling
What sounds good right now?
You don’t need to know exactly what you’re looking for. Begin with how you want to feel.
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Explore together
Conversation-starting favorites chosen for shared discovery.
Reconnect
Thoughtful ways to slow down, tune in, and make space for each other.
Keep it playful
Lighthearted picks that make trying something new feel easy.
First-time friendly
Comfortable, approachable choices with clear guidance at every step.
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The Backroom Guide
Not sure where to begin?
Answer a few comfortable questions and we’ll point you toward ideas that fit your relationship, comfort level, and curiosity.
A thoughtful first look
Favorites for two
The BackroomTHE
COUPLE’S
GUIDEBegin with connection.
COUPLE’S
GUIDEBegin with connection.
No awkward questions required
Good information changes everything.
Our guides make intimacy easier to talk about. Clear, kind, and never clinical—because learning together should feel good too.
- How to bring up trying something new
- A beginner’s guide to shopping together
- What “body-safe” actually means
Why The Backroom?
“We believe intimacy shopping should feel less like entering a strange world—and more like finding a favorite boutique.”
Relationship first. Honest recommendations. A little playfulness. Absolutely no judgment.
A little note from the backroom